Leadership is never about the leader; it’s about everyone else

Kenyans go to the polls this coming week. After the votes are counted and accepted, a new president will be in place.

So will many new governors, MPs and ward reps. There is, yet again, the opportunity to reset our nation.

Far be it from me to suggest whom you should vote for. That is a matter for you alone.

It stays between you and the ballot box; between you and your conscience; between you and your considered judgement.

What I can perhaps shed some light on is the answer to a seemingly innocuous question: what is leadership?

At one level the answer is obvious. Those who can get followers are leaders, and what they do is leadership.

If you are elected, appointed or anointed to lead others, then congratulations – you’re a leader.

Whatever it took to gain your position – charm, charisma, intellect, craft, aggression, bluster, even lies – constitutes your leadership.

In this telling, leadership is all about one person – the leader. The character, personality and resources of the leader tell us everything we need to know.

Nature of a leader

The leader’s daily mien, attitudes, style and behaviours become the leaders we have.

The success or failure of the leadership becomes linked with the nature of the leader.

Because we are used to leaders being ever-present – on our walls, on our screens, in our headlines, in our faces – we focus on the person of the leader.

We study their mannerisms, we grin or grimace at their utterances, we observe their dressing styles, and we become used to their phrases and behaviours.

The leader is everything you need to know about leadership.

But this is a delusion. Leadership has very little to do with the personal characteristics of one individual; it has everything to do with what that leader achieves – for those who are being led.

We go wrong when we focus on the person rather than the power; the personality rather than the opportunity; the talk rather than the walk.

Because here’s the thing: leadership isn’t about the leader; it’s about everyone else.

We don’t elect or appoint leaders to bestow status and riches on them; we do it in the hope that they will lead the collective to a better place.

As such, we should not vote for those who seduce or browbeat us; we should vote for those with the intentions and ideas for our betterment – not theirs.

Leadership, then, is not about what about leaders do or how they behave; rather, it is about creating the conditions in which others can give their best.

As I have written here before, we should think of the leader as the gardener, not the biggest tree that takes the most sunlight and overshadows the others.

The leader fertilises, plants, prunes, and monitors so that the garden can flourish. The leader works through others; the leader’s job is to bring out the best in the team.

Leaders are found everywhere on the spectrum. Some are fierce and demanding; others are laid-back and permissive.

Some give big speeches; others speak only when necessary. Some have big brains; others have big hearts.

Leadership results

We should not fixate on the differences. Instead, we should focus on the results of leadership: the actual betterment of the greater populace, in the longer term.

As you look at the list of candidates at various levels before you, then, some key questions arise.

Which of these candidates are not in this race for themselves, but for others?

Which of these seem most able to work with others for a greater goal? Which of these are generous human beings?

Which of these can unite us rather than divide us further? Which of these demonstrate ideas and programmes that uplift others?

Which of these will build a team of talents? Which of these have the brains and emotional intelligence to ignite the uplift of everyone in the nation?

Perhaps the most important question is this: which of these potential leaders might bring out the best in me?

Never forget: the leader is never going to do the work that is needed in your life.

The best leader for you will be the one who will give you the inspiration to work harder, enable you to access opportunities, empower you to deliver results and take you to deeper kinship with your fellow citizens.

The best leader for you will enjoin you in a common mission to make all lives better. Vote for the gardener who will allow you – and everyone around you – to grow.

Are there such people on that ballot paper? Only you can answer that. I wish wisdom and discernment for you as you make your choice.

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