- A Nigerian lady said she nearly missed marrying her husband because the man was behaving strangely when they first met
- She said her husband was showing her a lot of love when they were dating and that he was always the first to apologise
- The lady said she was not used to that kind of love and noted that she was telling the man to show his true colour
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A Nigerian lady is grateful for the kind of man she married but she said she almost missed marrying her husband.
According to the lady, when she first met the man who would become her husband, she was scared of how ‘strangely’ he was behaving.
Gift Nelson says her husband showed her so much love during their dating stage. Photo credit: TikTok/@nelson_gift.Source: TikTok
In a post she made on TikTok, Nelson Gift said her husband was so kind during their dating stage that she even thought his behaviour to be strange.
She said she was not used to the kind of love her husband was showing her when they were dating.
That made her tell him to show his full colour, not knowing that his love towards her was real.
She said in her post:
“When I met my husband, his personality was strange to me. He was too kind, always quick to apologize, has a very attractive sense of humour, and he forgives easily. Anytime we had a misunderstanding, this man would call me the next day and begin to gist me something entirely different just to make me laugh, and then we resolved things later. And he communicated his feelings with so much maturity.”
Gift Nelson says her husband was always finding ways to make peace if they had a misunderstanding. Photo credit: TikTok/@nelson_gift.Source: TikTok
According to Gift, she felt like her husband was pretending and he wasn’t showing his true self.
She said:
“Honestly, I felt like he was pretending because I wasn’t used to that kind of love. There was a day I told him “I know you are just pretending, you better show your true nature” and he laughed and said “This is me”.
Gift said she was used to the kind of love that kept malice and in which couples would not talk to each other for days when they had a misunderstanding.
She noted:
“Before I met him, I was used to being defensive, not accountable whenever I was wrong, and always looking for who to blame. Saying “I’m sorry” was even out of the equation and not talking to your partner for 2-3 days when you have a misunderstanding was normal to me.”
She said her relationship with her husband changed her life because the man taught her the true kind of love.
Reactions as lady shared her love story with her husband
@Vivian said:
“May God connect we singles to the right man dat will love, cherish and understand us.. Amen.”
@janez said:
“I treated a girl this way, even had to buy a pad for her, she was surprised because she tinks I’m a playboy, had to quit smoking just to love her properly, but she is too broken, she never believes.”
Man falls in love with Tanzanian woman
Earlier, TheTalk.NG reported that a Nigerian man has fallen in love with a woman from another African country, and his happiness knows no bounds.
The man said that after meeting the lady from Tanzania, he discovered that he had been wasting his time with Nigerian ladies.
The young man and the Tanzanian lady are set to get married very soon, as they have set their wedding date after falling in love.
Source: TheTalk.NG
