Lady falls in love with oyinbo online, meets him and finds out he’s Nigerian man

  • A beautiful lady was surprised when she realised the man she had been talking to online used a fake profile
  • The lady thought she was getting along with a white man named Ben, not knowing he was a Nigerian in real life
  • As soon as the lady realised on their first physical date, she left in disappointment and made a video

A pretty Nigerian lady went online to narrate her dating experience with a person who used a fake (catfish) profile.

According to her, she met a man named Ben on a dating site, and they hit it off. After a while, they decided to meet.

Meeting people online/Dating strangers.The lady walked out of the date venue angry.
Photo source: @alexxsandraakay, Getty Images/EvgeniiAndSource: TikTok

Finding love on dating apps

The lady (@alexxsandraakay) said she got to the reserved restaurant even before the said Ben, who was a white man on the dating app.

After a while, a black Nigerian man walked in, and the lady thought he was a stranger, telling him the table was reserved.

The Nigerian man later revealed he was the Ben she had been talking to online, and he used a white man’s profile because he did not feel comfortable using his. The lady was shocked.

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TheTalk.NG compiled some of the reactions below:

Aver said:

“Please exposed him, to save us the stress and same experience.”

Wabster said:

“You don’t video chat before dates?”

Henry Chinonso Chiedozie said:

“Madam is looking for English man probably why you agreed to the date in the first place.”

Ghizlan wondered:

“Sis a month?! Did y’all never FaceTime.”

Scaramucci Obongo said:

“Mama dey find oyinbo mugu. lmaooo.”

Theo said:

“She dey find free passport, Okpo.”

Ed said:

“An advice i would give you is to make sure you make video calls with the person to confirm them first and also for your safety… you are so beautiful.”

Melbdamzel said:

“My brother is married my dear … it’s not about confidence.”

Iheoma said:

“You should have made a video call, few hours into the conversation. That is how you know they are real. (Video calls make sure the man is moving around, engaging in an activity.).”

Lady fell in love with stranger

Meanwhile, TheTalk.NG earlier reported that a young Nigerian lady, @zandy489, went to a supermarket and saw a very handsome man working as an attendant at the place.

She was too shy to approach the man to express her feelings, even though she liked him. The lady had to make a TikTok video to ask people to help her.

Source: TheTalk.NG


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